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To Phil Collins’ mum: Thank you for letting him drum

Hi, I’m Jose and I’m an entrepreneur. Starting and growing companies is my life. But in retrospect I know that it’s a path I unfortunately didn’t discover as soon as I should have.

All the telltale signs were there. Growing up as an immigrant, I had two parents who started their own businesses to support their new American lifestyle. When I wasn’t scheduling appointments or keeping the books in my mom’s beauty salon, I was watching my dad negotiate deals with his auto parts customers.

Phil Collins, professional drummer

Phil Collins, professional drummer

Raised by small business owners, you would think it would have been an obvious path. But I didn’t know it at the time – and no one helped me see it.

Instead, I did what I was expected to do, went to college, got a communications degree and ended up working in one of the most elite blocks of midtown Manhattan. I had all the trappings of success, but I’ll be honest. I was paid poorly and was miserable with the work I was doing.

It wasn’t long before I figured out that working for a large firm was not my calling, but I can’t help thinking that had I listened to the other voice on my shoulder, I might have gotten an earlier start. I mean, *I* might have invented Facebook!

STEM vs. STEAM — The “A” is the Game Changer

Everyone these days is into STEM – tech is going to save the world; engineers have it made; math and science isn’t just for boys, all that. It’s all true. What I think sometimes gets less attention is STEAM, where we throw arts into the equation. In fact, I’d be willing to bet that most parents who are advocating for a strong STEM education for their kids would diss an art path if that was suggested. And that could be a mistake.

As we pilot our career match making app, I recently came across some fascinating, counterintuitive data. After testing students at a top STEM middle school, we found that they actually scored higher in their artistic component than students in any of the other traditional schools that participated.

The starving artist implication that comes with the suggestion that perhaps your son should go to art school, isn’t always the easiest pill to swallow for parents. I know; I ran marketing at a large art and design university and consult for a smaller design college.

But why not? Why the disconnect? As I help kids consider various career paths, they realize that their love of art can easily dovetail with the tech jobs they’re “expected” to get. Many designers and art majors go on to some really cool jobs at little old companies like Apple, Amazon and Facebook. And they probably end up being a lot happier and more fulfilled helping design a sleek new device or campaign than stress testing a metal alloy – if that’s their thing. Virtual reality. Gaming. All these tech industries have a major art and design component that can be overlooked by parents in their quest to produce an engineer.

Parents Fear Passion

Well, parents fear lots of types of passion in their kids, but what I’m talking about is the career passion that makes kids want to pursue paths that on the surface might look nutty. Being a drummer in a rock band or a professional skateboarder don’t strike many parents as smart options, but Phil Collins did more than OK for himself.

Passion isn’t a bad thing. If you love what you’re doing, chances are good you’re going to make it work. I didn’t have a passion for working inside big companies, but I am relentless in the pursuit for growing the ones I’ve started. But no one showed me that was a possibility.

Knowing What You Want To Do Saves Angst – and Money

I find that many parents need a good old-fashioned business case for choosing an alternate path. Sure, they think that getting a college degree is the price of admission to life – and for many careers it definitely is.

“all of us are going to end up where we’re going to end up”

But going to college to “figure it out” is a much more expensive proposition these days than it used to be. And the hard truth is that some kids might be better off taking a different path with a non-traditional school, such as an art school, a vocational school or no school at all. Why not help them figure out who they are and help them find out what path they should be on, before just pushing them down the path of “least resistance.”

The bottom line is that I believe parents need to be open-minded — to let their kids to become who they are. I firmly believe that all of us are going to end up where we’re going to end up. But I can’t help but wonder what I could have done if I’d found my sweet spot earlier. Sure, I’d probably have saved a ton on dry cleaning and commuting but I would have spent a lot less time listening to pointless buzzwords being throw about on conference calls. It’s much more than that: it’s about letting kids and young adults focus on where they’re headed, rather than just listening to parents and society.

– Jose Mallabo

 

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